Females. The majority of society today believes that we are dramatic and needy. But to let you in on a little secret.... we aren't. Every women I don't care who you are, every women wants love. Love so deep that the ocean would be jealous. Every women wants to find someone that makes them feel special. The root to all this "drama" is the want for love. At the end of the day, the majority of us, don't care what car you drive, or how much money you make a year, all that matters is that love us, plan and simple. "Women don't need to be understood, they just need to be loved"
In High School when you refer to a "slut" or someone who is easy, what are you referring to exactly? They may wear more provocative clothing, text a bunch of guys, or do a bunch of guys. If you take the things I described and take it out of the popular high school girl context and put that on the average female, where does that leave us? We all want to find that certain someone and will kiss, or sleep with many frogs to do so. So when this happens does the line just automatically blur? What is the difference? Yes, you may be very nice and I am not saying this to offend anyone, but seriously, just think, have you done something that a certain "sluty" girl from high school did? Of course at the time you rolled your eyes and walked away in disgust, but is this action now just your day to day activity? If so, are we all a little slutty?
Why is it so easy for some people to fall in love, while others need a bit more time? Is it just the way our brains are programmed? Or is it past experiences that tell us not to fall too quickly? Even then, many who fall for someone quickly have still gone through many heart wrenching experiences. So what is it exactly? Are the people who take there time heartless? Of course not, they are just cautious! So does that mean that the people who fall in love easily are mindless? Of course not, they just trust people. After all, you can't fall without trusting.
To all the moms out there, this is a day to say thank you for all the things you have done! Even though it may not seem like it we are extremely thankful everyday for your being there to take care of us. I would just like to say to my own mom thank you for cleaning all my dirty diapers, and staying awake into the wee hours as I cried. Thank you for feeding me everyday and reprimanding me when needed. Thank you for listening to my endless gossip stories and dealing with my mood swings. Thank you for being you and letting me be me! :)
I Love you to the moon and back xo
Take pride in how far you have come and have faith in how far you can go