These are some quotes that I just had to share!!
Are you ever truly "destined" as they say to have a soulmate? How do you know? Will there ever be time in life when you will happen to meet this person and if yes, will you recognize its your "soulmate"? Are soulmates always someone that you are romantically involved with? What if a soulmate was your best friend, not to sound creepy or anything but, what if they were always there for you but you were not romantically involved with them, are they your life's soulmate, cause after all we only get one right? How do you ever truly know you have found your soulmate, because every person you fall in love with could feel like one until the blinding love wears away and you see them for truly who they are, are you still going to love your so called soulmate?
I am currently watching the 2013 VMA'S!! I love award shows! Anyway I just watched Taylor Swift walk up onto stage and basically got the best revenge ever. She just accepted the award for the I Knew You Were Trouble video. She basically got onto stage and was able to look gorgeous while simultaneously snub Harry Styles. Now now I do love me some Harry Styles...like a lot, I mean he is hot,british, amazing,cute,cheeky,funny...anyway I could go on for a while. Basically Taylor was listing off all the names that helped her with the creation of the video and lastly she said "thank you to the person that was the inspiration for this video, and you know who you are". Now this would seem like a bit of a jab but not that bad, but then the camera went to the one and only Harry Styles who was clapping and smirking (I need to add that to my list because his smirk is godly). And she said "I am here with a walk man now so.." or something along those lines, basically stating that she is in a way better position than him. Now just pretend for a moment that this isn't about Harry Styles and that it was you on stage rather than Taylor, that would feel pretty good to be able to snub that person that broke your heart or seriously hurt you. Any who that was a great snub/revenge moment by the one and only Taylor Swift, what do you think? Also lots of people say that getting revenge is stupid or immature, and others say that its the only way for that one person to know how you feel. Now I can argue both sides but, what do you think, is revenge good or bad?
I would first like to announce that it is my older Sisters birthday today! I love birthdays! They are so much fun, and in my view a great time to spend with the people you love. I think especially for "big birthdays" or the "milestone birthdays" that you need to do something extra special. There are all sorts of fun things to do for either a more laid back type of person or a more wild person, and every birthday doesn't have to be a party. So here are some different ideas for a more laid back person: picnic,hike,walk in the city,surfing,boating,bike ride etc. Then for the more wild people: shopping, fancy restaurant, rent a limo, concert, go dancing, rent a yacht (if you have the money cause they are pricey!) There are so many fun and cute ideas for every birthday you just have to think a little to create a fun day for the special someone!
( Love you Liv! )
What is a relationship exactly? The dictionary definition is relationship: a connection, association, or involvement. So according to the dictionary I could be on a train that had a mishap and instantly be in a relationship with the creepy hobo with one tooth sitting next to me? I view a relationship as someone who knows you and understands you in some sort on way. Sitting next to a hobo on a train that was involved in the same mishap I was in, not so much. In a romantic relationship there are all sorts of "rules", you can't text him too early or you look desperate and god forbid you ever burped or farted in front of him(even though these aren't planned and not exactly what you would want, it has been proven among a group of guys that if you accidentally do these it proves you are human a.k.a not so intimidating) I think every relationship is completely different from the other. Although there is always one thing connecting all and that is love (awww, I know I just got all sappy...it happens at times) I think though that is the most interesting things about relationships and how they are all different but tied together by one connection. To go along with this every girl has her own version of a fairy-tale and every guy has his own version of "hot" or "sexy", and just like a puzzle you have to find someone that matches yours.
I could go shopping all day if I had the time and money! I especially have a shoe obsession a bit....a lot! I have a very diverse style, either I am girly and fashion forward, or I am the complete opposite and have more of a rugged- California-laid-back-ness to my outfits. (If you were able to understand that weird long hyphenated word you deserve a gold star, but if not I will show you in pictures what I mean). I love going out and trying to break these "fashion boundaries" and bit rather than follow in them. To have a sense of style you don't have to follow in these boundaries! That is the thing I love about fashion is you get to know a person just by what they are wearing before they even open their mouth. Also even though there are fashion do's and dont's in the style world it doesn't mean you need to follow them. Just be you! If you want to put a stripe t-shirt with a polka dot skirt them do it! [ that would actually be a really cute idea ;) ] So just remember you can have a fashion crush on someone, but make sure you put your own spin on things and don't copy everything they wear. Just have fun being you!This is the more rugged look
Boys, boys, boys.... There are so many things that I just don't understand about them, but at the same time I do, its very weird! You can put yourself out there and either the guy will love it and embrace the confidence you show, or they think your a creep. These are two very different things and I think we all in our heads would much rather have a guy embrace your confidence rather than think we are creeps, right? So what does this leave us to do if they think we are creepy? Either you are a "go-getter" and you continue to pursue guys, or you are more like me and would much rather lay low for a bit till you can try again. Or you don't do either because you were so scared the first time that now you just are waiting for a guy to read your mind that you like them.... in that case you might need a therapist! Guys CAN NOT read minds, and you might think you are a superhero or something but girls can't either! So in that case whether you need a bit of time to rejuvenate, or if you can get back out into the ring, do it! If you truly know me you would know that I have yet to get my first boyfriend.....so your probably thinking why is she giving this advice when she can just talk the talk but not walk the walk. I am doing this because I have indeed put myself out there many times and I continue to do that whenever the situation is right. I am not a settler and I wont settle and have a relationship with someone if there is not going to be anything to it but physical attraction. What this whole post was about was mainly to get your confidence and keep it, don't let a guy defeat you! There will be a guy out there that will love you for everything you are and everything your not, don't settle!
Beauty........its a word that sends chills down my back when someone tells me that I represent it. Why do we all look up to these stick thin models that represent "beauty". Have you ever heard of Marilyn Monroe, Beyonce, Jennifer Lopez, Sofia Vergara, Rihanna,or Scarlett Johansson? Well you have to have heard of at least one of these beauty symbols. These women are just a handful of many that are curvy, beauty bombshells, and guess what? Guys can't get enough! To be beautiful you don't have to wear pounds of makeup,be a size 00 and dieting. You can eat what you want (but be healthy), wear little to no makeup and just be true to yourself and size. Please, if you are a girl that is struggling with weight or beauty issues you are not alone. To let you in on a secret, I am one of those girls, but I am trying everyday to tell myself I am beautiful and perfect just the way I am, and you should too. You have to truly love yourself before someone else can truly love you!
Take pride in how far you have come and have faith in how far you can go