Fake friends, is there a way to avoid them? Why get attached to them somehow just to learn they aren't going to be there for you? Fake friends might as well ignore you and act as though you aren't there, that is if they don't do that already. If you are "friends" with someone, or even have a pleasant conversation with them, you NEED to acknowledge they are there; whether you are walking past them in the hallway, or see them on your way to work, just say hello,is that too much to ask? When you are "friends" with someone you should want to help them out and be there for them, not run away when things start to get tough. Immature= Fake friends..... don't be a fake friend.
In a perfect fairytale there is always a prince that comes to the rescue.But what if, in real life the prince took a wrong turn? Or was caught in traffic and didn't make it in time to save their princess? What happens then? And to all the "princesses", do we really need to be saved? Or do we only need to feel safe? What would a prince look like without a princess to save? How can you tell him apart from all the frogs? Would you want to be able I tell him apart from the others,or is the reason why he is so wonderful and prince-like, because you kissed those other frogs?
Why is it when we can't have something or someone it makes it more fun to try and get it or them? Its like you are drawn to the person and you can't stop, that is until they become available and then they aren't so intriguing. Are we only drawn to people because of mystery? Or Truth? Or is the thought of not standing a chance the element that makes it so compelling?
**Check out my new post under the music tab, it is a new song Cher Lloyd called "I Wish" and it has the same sort of theme that this post has.
There is nothing more fulfilling than when you have someone you can go to for anything, and that can handle you at your weird quirky times...we all have them.This can be a parent, sibling, best friend,really anyone. For me it's my family and my best friend. It's times at these fulfilling moments when we need to be grateful and happy we have those people because you never know what could happen a hour from now. Happy Friday everyone!!
I'm sorry did I ask for your opinion
Good, then shut your mouth
Let me be me and
I will let you be you
don't tell me what to think
and don't ever tell me what to do
Why do we put ourselves down just to fit in or meld to someone else's needs? Are we really just like gumby and can be morphed into all different shapes? I know we have all done this at some point in our lives, your friend says "Oh have you seen my ears today they look horrible!" and rather than tell her she looks perfectly fine, we join in "yeah well my nose looks way worse so don't you worry!" What's the point of this? For some girls it's a bonding conversation to pick themselves apart, but it shouldn't be! It's one thing to talk about your insecurities and then try and think of a way to positively change your thought process. But it's another to have a pick-apart convo with your girlfriends.You need to stick up for yourself, because if you don't who will?
I will never be the girl who can look amazing in anything. I can never be the girl that will always be right. I will never be a stick. I will never be that girl that is perfect all the time, in fact I will never be her. And lastly I will never give up my opinion to please someone else. I will be the girl that works her ass off to get what she wants. I will be the girl that doesn't give up. I will be the girl that cares. I will be the girl to talk to about anything. I am the girl that believes in fairytales and true love.
Hey guys! So I have been watching a lot of YouTube videos on girls talking about their "perfect imperfections" and I haven't really figured out how to put a video up myself so I am just going to post a picture and type up my perfect imperfections. Also I am going to be posting a couple of other peoples links of them talking about their perfect imperfections. Before I start I am quickly going to explain this activity to you, so I am going to write 3 things about myself that I am not really a fan of and then I am going to write 3 things I do like about myself. Now this is not an "activity" to do to make people feel sorry for you or to brag about yourself, its just to show people that everyone has imperfections and its a positive way to acknowledge them. Also the phase of doing these videos was done a year or two ago but I just recently found them and loved them. If you want to join in and write a comment on one of your perfect imperfections go right ahead!
So this is a older pic but its just so you get the jist of what I am talking about.
Now these are the things that I like about myself:
Here are some other videos:
"I can't decide if it's a choice getting swept away" is a line in Treacherous by Taylor Swift. Ms. Swift does make a valid point, but is it true? If it is our choice why aren't we a bit more careful with whom we fall for? And if it isn't then what is it based on, fate? In that case what is fate? Is it some sort of aligning of the planets that somehow connect two people? Lastly if that's true how do we know fate has made its way into our lives?
What makes us feel not good enough? Whether it is a person constantly telling you that you aren't, or just being too hard on yourself it hurts your self esteem dramatically. The phrase "I don't feel good enough" is one of the things I have basically lived by for the past couple of years. But why? Why don't we feel good enough? Are we disappointed with ourselves? Has someone told us we aren't? or has someone done something to make us feel this way? Who's standards are we not good enough against? What if I told you that you are good enough? Everyone in this world is good enough for something. I think personally the topic that I have always not felt good enough in is relationships. No I have not been in a relationship, but even as far as someone liking me, or a crush. In the end I always get disappointed because the majority of the time they either don't feel the same way or are completely clueless and therefore I blame it on myself and that I am not good enough, rather than blame it on the facts. That's the difference between guys they react on facts, have you ever met a guy that has said " I don't feel good enough"? In some cases this isn't good because they try to go after someone who is completely not interested in them and they don't get that they don't like them and never will. Whereas girls react with feeling and not feeling good and worthy of the love that is right in front of them. I don't want to feel that way anymore and hopefully you don't either. You are worthy and don't forget that!
Take pride in how far you have come and have faith in how far you can go